Sunday, November 23, 2008

Fun Monday: Life Highs....

Mariposa asks us to write about 3-5 highs in our lives.

When I read this assignment, I thought, "Ahhh, no problem. Sign me up." Next time, I'll think harder.

It's pretty easy to come up with 3-5....I'm one of those over-educated people (i.e. I couldn't find my path in life so I stayed in school for a long time). Each time I graduated or changed direction and was actually accepted in a school or training program for the next segment of my meandering road to where I am now, there was an incredible thrill. As a person who had (or still has) some self-esteem issues, I was thrilled (no the appropriate term would be shocked) that I had managed to make the next turn in my life's journey. However, a list like this is a little boring

So, the big thrills?

1. Graduating from high school. I don't have a picture, but it was a huge thrill for me. I come from a family where education is highly regarded. Graduating from HS was expected, and a minor milestone in my family, but for me, it meant I was on my way. In my mind, I was finally an adult (ahh, the misconceptions of youth).

2. My first car. Another rite of passage. In my family, one was given a car for completing college. I chose a Toyota Corolla hatchback with sun-roof. That car was mine for the next 13 years. That care gave me independence (with good gas mileage on the side). I wracked up 167,000 miles on it with the maintenance that a graduate student could afford (not much). I replaced the spark plugs for the first time at 105,000 miles. The mechanic told me he didn't see any functional surfaces, but the car had still been running (For some reason, he seemed to be laughing hysterically when he called me to ask when I had last replaced the spark plugs....never?). That car was a good one. They just don't make like that anymore. Of course, when I replaced it, I hadn't realized what a rough I had been experiencing. Those sorts of things creep up on you.

3. Graduating from medical school. This day represented the end of my official schooling, although I still had about 7 years of training ahead of me. When I was in college, I dreamed of medical school, but I lacked confidence. Graduate school prior to medical school gave me that confidence (and also convinced me that medicine was my calling). The medical school road was a good, but bumpy one. I was diagnosed with thyroid cancer during my first year. The regular stresses of medical school combined with hormonal stressers....was... interesting (I need a "big grin" emoticon after that one). My treating endocrinologist hooded me at graduation. His picture is to the right. Amazing what one can find on the internet. Note to self: need to scan in some of those graduation pictures.....

4. Buying my first home. I have printed pictures but not many digital pictures. This house was over 50 years old and 1100 square feet with 3 bedrooms (small!) and one bath. These days, it would be advertised as a "cottage." Owning a home meant that I could finally have a dog: something that I had wanted since leaving home. The house was an odd thing. It had been owned by a "contractor" who had jerry-mandered lots of things (oh, the stories I heard from the neighbors about some of the "contracting."). The house had the original tile -- yellow with black trim. At first, I hated that, but grew to kind of like it over time. It was just the right size for me and my 4-legged kids.

So those are some of the thrills.

Finally, for those of you who are dog lovers, I recently experienced the miracle of a litter of pups. The has certainly been a high for me, although I realize that it must pale in comparison to having a child.

Having pups may take more intestinal fortitude than I have -- Gabi failed to dilate and so had to have a c-section. Unfortunately, I HAD to be a work, after being up with her through the night. Through the support of several people, all went well, and Gabi and pups have been doing great. Despite having a c-section, Gabi has bonded well with her pups. She left them for more than 30 seconds when they were 3 days old. We went to the whippet ranch and she knew that she had been left behind (and was not pleased). For those interested in wasting 3:30 minutes watching blind wigglers....click the link (By the way, it is the same one that is on Gabi's blog, so if you have seen that, don't bother. Hopefully, I'll have a new one in a few days).


Now, go check out the others on the list:
1. Beedancer
2. brocasarea
3. Grace
4. Hootin Anni
5. ChrisB
6. SWAMP~WITCH aka: Swampy
7. M (the misanthrope)
8. Mamalang
9. IamwhoIam
10. KarmynR
11. Swampangel65
12. Sarah
13. HulaGirl
14. Jan
15. Faye
16. celeste
17. iPost
18. Margaret, Soon To Be Mama
19. BS
20. Melanie
21.
You're next!

12 comments:

Pamela said...

I envy your resolve. Even at this stage in my life I still think about that college degree that I didn't quite stick around for.

Anonymous said...

I'm proud of you! My family also put high regards to education...

And WOOT to all your achievements...not only they are high moments...they're inspiring as well!

Happy Fun Monday!

Faye said...

I so agree with you about the importance of education--graduating from high school was a BIG deal for me as well. You seem to be a periennial student--a good quality to have in a doctor!

There's nothing like owning your own home--even with the trials of constant maintenance. And then the bonus of getting to raise as many dogs as you'd like. I so enjoyed seeing Gabi's new babies last week and can understand your fascination with them. Are you keeping any of them?

Hope you get to enjoy some down time over the holiday.

Hootin Anni said...

Excellent post!!! Education is NOT overrated...it's a must!! You did good.

And LOVE Gabi!!!!

ChrisB said...

I really enjoyed reading about all your special moments. I think there will be few amongst us who would not agree that education is important. Although I didn't mention it in my post, both my girls graduations were very proud moments for me. (Sam even achieved a 1st Class Hons Degree).

The video of the pups is cute.

Anonymous said...

Such great highs :)

Congratulations with the medical degree, I can certainly empathise with how tough grad school can be! I do imagine it's easier without a partner. After I finish I've got to find a job in our locality - but I don't mind, I love where we live!

And I thought your 50 year old house looked great. It's interesting perspective of things the other side of the atlantic. My parents house was built in the 1920s I think, and when they moved in it had ivy growing through the brick living room wall!

Patience-please said...

I did not know about your thyroid CA, I do not think. I believe AOJ and the lurchers is too. There's a link to her on my blog.
I envy your good choices to stay in school until you found your way. I did the opposite, not living up to my name. Not a good choice.
I could watch your blind wigglers forever.

Driftwood and Pumpkin said...

The first car! Yes, that was a high for me too. A Dodge Aries K car. Ugliest thing you ever saw, but it's name was freedom!

Anonymous said...

Wow...you have achieved so much! And...awww, puppies!! I would love to have a dog, but with our current zoo, I know that I wouldn't be able to give Doggie the attention and care that he would need.

PS. I hear you on the Toyota thing...I am convinced that Toyotas are indestructible. Ditto Hondas and Mazdas. My old motorcycle was a Honda, as I noted in my post. It had had minimal maintenance and it ran beautifully. My current car is a Mazda...140K miles, 12+ years old and still going strong! Great post!

Anonymous said...

I forgot about a first house being a high moment - although it was quite a scary one too!

IamwhoIam said...

Great Highs - Oh pups you got to love them, and how you managed med school while going through treatment is amazing.

Have to agree that a car give you freedom.

Jan said...

Excellent post for Fun Monday. This has been an interesting subject. Everyone approached from different angles.